Needless Distraction vs. Meaningful Creation
In 2008, Americans consumed 10,845 trillion words. That’s around 100,000 words per person per day. In fact, if you took all the information we consumed, printed it in books and stacked them across the entire United States (including Alaska), the pile would be 7 feet high (source).
We’re a Culture of Needless Distraction
Distraction is comfortable. It’s been 10 years and 4 months since I gave up television. It was right about the time George W. Bush began his presidency (no real correlation). Occasionally (though less and less) I’ll catch a show on Netflix but I’m referring to the endless hours of channel surfing. To this day, I’ll zone out of conversations and miss meaningful experiences when there is a TV on in the room.
Distraction is unfulfilling. I once watched an entire season of the show 24 in one sitting. I had just moved into a new apartment, and my only sustenance was candy. Just me, Jack Bauer, and a 1 pound bag of skittles for 24 straight hours. It wasn’t pretty and when it was all over, I felt zero sense of accomplishment. Instead, I was tired, angry and my love for skittles was ruined for life.
Distraction is addictive. I was hooked on video games as a youth pastor. At the time, I told myself it was to “connect” with the kids. If you’ve ever played online multiplayer games, you know how
fun addictive they can be. A particularly embarrassing moment came during a heated exchange through an online chat with a much younger player. I recall thinking to myself, “You’re trash-talking a 10 year old. Shut it down.”
What are you waiting for?
When you start watching the seconds of your life tick away, your entire outlook will change dramatically.
When you start watching the seconds of your life tick away, your entire outlook will change dramatically. You’ll start to realize there is simply not enough time in the day for things in your life you previously thought were important. I’m not talking about watching less painfully addictive JJ Abrams shows. I’m talking about wholesale transformation.
The Beauty of Meaningful Creation
Creation is inspiring. Last year, I posted a list of quotes on passion (on my business blog). I added one of my own quotes, it was my post after all. The article skyrocketed in Google and soon hundreds of websites were featuring my humble saying on passion. It’s been liked, tweeted, pinned and prominently featured on a few high-traffic sites. People have grabbed it and added it to their own lists, and now it perches inconspicuously among quotes from Einstein, Hemingway and Churchill. Consider my mind blown.
Creation is encouraging. When the desire to make a difference converges with a desire to create, wonderful things happen. After nearly a decade of youth ministry, I look back and realize I simply made myself available and tried to provide something worthwhile. The result?
- 9+ years of youth ministry (avg. 47 lessons/year)
- 425+ lessons taught (avg. 30 minutes/lesson)
- 12,750 minutes of teaching (avg. 15 kids/lesson)
- 180,000 minutes of attention (multiplying kids by the time)
- 133 straight days of teaching and encouraging young people
My simple effort to foster meaningful relationships created a family, home and new life.
Creation can be intangible. You don’t need to write a book, start a blog or build a widget to create. It could be about opening your mind to new relationships, experiences, or life changes. In the last three years, I’ve had the fortune to marry my best friend, purchase my first home and become a father (with another on the way). My simple effort to foster meaningful relationships created a family, home and new life (my precious daughter Penelope). Consider my mind blown again!
Be prepared for the pitfalls of creation.
Before you toss your fancy flatscreen to the curb and quit your day job, there are a few things to consider:
- Being a creator is hard work. Actually, it’s really hard. That’s probably the main reason more people don’t attempt it. My favorite NFL player ever, Jerry Rice has a great quote, “Today I will do what others won’t, so tomorrow I can accomplish what others can’t.”
- Be prepared to fail (often). Your chance for failure is extremely high at first, that’s OK. When you’re doing something new you’re bound to make mistakes, meet with defeat and eventually feel like giving up. However, when you begin to look at failure as an outcome (on your way to success) your entire perspective on life will change.
- Don’t expect great things to happen immediately. We’ve all heard of a little game called Angry Birds. The raving success that received 500 million downloads in less than 2 years. One thing you might not know was Rovio, the company behind the game, made 49 games previous to this one. They hit fame and fortune on their 50th try!
How can we apply this to our lives?
I could easily say something like, “Stop wasting your time on things that don’t matter and go live your life,” but the real answer is different for everyone. Here’s the process I used:
- Start with your friction. I decided to start with the parts of my life that frustrated me the most. Namely, areas of my life that weren’t in alignment with my values. For example, I highly value sharing and helping others, yet I was wasting my free time with needless distractions.
- Eliminate the clutter. I worked to eliminate objects or activities that weren’t adding meaningful value to my life. Interestingly, as I started to change my perspective this was easier than I thought it would be.
- Find your passion. This is the most difficult part. I kickstarted the process by making ongoing list of ideas from new businesses, to products, to websites, to mobile apps. I spent at least a month making the list and stewing over the various options. My ultimate decision became what would make me most excited to get out of bed everyday. The choice was this website.
- Make it happen. Finally, I made the intentional decision to live courageously and took immediate action. I don’t have it all worked out, but I do have a plan and I’m publicly sharing my journey so you’ll either be inspired or forewarned.
- What one thing do you most want to accomplish but haven’t?
- What have you created that you’re willing to share?
- What’s your most embarrassing story of needless consumption?